To Jill:

What Gina is going to find out is she does need you. She needs you as a friend, a partner, and her wife. It will confirm to her how lucky she is and how in love she is with you. If anything, this will make you both stronger, as individuals and as a couple. I'm not in your place, I can't imagine how hard this is...the waiting, the long hours, the time passing by so slowly. What I do know is, Gina is one of the strongest people we both know and she's going to be great. She's going to experience what we have already and that means the world to her. If nothing else, that will make her happy because that's how she is. She throws herself into her life, as she does in her family and friends lives. She's a special lady and she'll do her best for her, for you, and for all of us because that's the type of person she is. She wants to succeed and undoubtedly, she will.

See that post down there, the one I wrote for your anniversary? I meant every word. You ladies have a love that will NEVER go away. You two fit...that's all there is to it. There's no reason to worry, we all had to go through our hardships to get the results we have today. Gina will have to go through hers too and when she does, she's going to be awesome.